Primary relationship

What is a primary relationship? A primary relationship is a relationship between two people that the partners see as their most important interpersonal relationship. There are three basic types of primary relationship.

The first type is traditional couples. They share a basic belief system and philosophy of life.

The second type is independents couples. They stress their individuality. The relationship is important but never more important than each person’s individual identity.

The third type is separates couples. They live together, but they view their relationship more as a matter of convenience than a result of their mutual love or closeness.

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Liew Li Hui

angels and demons

when we talk about personality disorders we talk about people with two faces. this is what i mean when i talk about angels and demons. Most people now days have 2 sides in them. One side is when they conceal their biggest and darkest secrets and the other is where they look like the msot perfect person on the world. These kind of peolple are not the kind who will be very good in relationships no matter in friendship or any kind of that sort . that is why it is very important to draw the line between these people when u see signs of these people's characteristics changing.

written by: dharshinie vimalanathan

phrases we tend to use

we come from a culture where communication now has become "advanced". What do i mean by "advanced"? Well we all know very well that now days communication has gone into the next level whereby people communicate with not only normal terms but they add on other "terms" in their topic conversation's. Im referring these "terms" as in valgure words used by people nowdays mostly students which somtimes are very shocking to here and with these terms being used it doesnt refelect on where they picked it up from it refeclts back on the our pur parents who have brought us uo to say such things. People always say that they want to make their parents proud by achieving all sorts of grades and becoming some famous person one day. But where does this all go to when words like these are used in away it is dissapointing our parent san literally we are putting them down. That is why it is very important for us to think before we let out what we're are speaking because it refeclts not on us but our parents.

written by: dharshinie vimalanathan

manage conflict

In managing conflict, you can choose from a variety of productive or unproductive strategies. The strategies you choose will be influenced by numerous factors. Among them are:

1. Goals- what are you trying to achieve?
2. Emotional state- what is your feeling right now?
3. Cognitive assessment- what are you belief in?
4. Personality and communication competence- what are your characteristics?
5. Family history- how is your background?

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Liew Li Hui

relationship,frienships and relative

relationship,relatives and friendship all these need to be renew or let me say the are like fuel in the car,you cant drive it the whole entire year without putting fuel, that's the point i want to illustrate.we see marriage people after few years of marriage the start cheating or getting bored of the marriage its because we are not putting the spark back.do nice funny things you used to do make it go back as if it was the time you guys fell in love in that way you are watering the grass to be green again.just like friends its not normal everything his the one visiting,his the one buying you presents for your birthday let it be equal visit him as wel in that way you wont lose interest in each other.same applys to relative just because you are related does not mean love should side on one side,let the love be equal and visit each other oftenly to renew the love in that way you wont say he or she is my distannt cazen because this is exactly the truth.Roy chikumbi