Sunday, November 8, 2009

Music , a powerful tool in todays modern world

Music, whether from the past or present day is been used as a tool to get information to people. We are able to bring out feelings of happiness, sadness, joy and so on to others. It been a powerful communication tool, which as no barriers,applies to people of all ages old and young, we all litsen to music for different reasons, motivation can be one of them. When an individual is having an attraction for a girl ,lady or woman music in one way can make us know the right words to use,words so sweet that when that person gets to hear you say them or rather even listen to the words been sang in the song will actually motivate them to be attracted to you, cause you get to enjoy the same taste of music, a quality which makes both of have something in common. Music is important, appreaciate it, love it, litsen to it .....and enjoy it.....Roy Chikumbi

Monday, November 2, 2009

Primary relationship

What is a primary relationship? A primary relationship is a relationship between two people that the partners see as their most important interpersonal relationship. There are three basic types of primary relationship.

The first type is traditional couples. They share a basic belief system and philosophy of life.

The second type is independents couples. They stress their individuality. The relationship is important but never more important than each person’s individual identity.

The third type is separates couples. They live together, but they view their relationship more as a matter of convenience than a result of their mutual love or closeness.

posted by,
Liew Li Hui

Sunday, November 1, 2009

angels and demons

when we talk about personality disorders we talk about people with two faces. this is what i mean when i talk about angels and demons. Most people now days have 2 sides in them. One side is when they conceal their biggest and darkest secrets and the other is where they look like the msot perfect person on the world. These kind of peolple are not the kind who will be very good in relationships no matter in friendship or any kind of that sort . that is why it is very important to draw the line between these people when u see signs of these people's characteristics changing.

written by: dharshinie vimalanathan

phrases we tend to use

we come from a culture where communication now has become "advanced". What do i mean by "advanced"? Well we all know very well that now days communication has gone into the next level whereby people communicate with not only normal terms but they add on other "terms" in their topic conversation's. Im referring these "terms" as in valgure words used by people nowdays mostly students which somtimes are very shocking to here and with these terms being used it doesnt refelect on where they picked it up from it refeclts back on the our pur parents who have brought us uo to say such things. People always say that they want to make their parents proud by achieving all sorts of grades and becoming some famous person one day. But where does this all go to when words like these are used in away it is dissapointing our parent san literally we are putting them down. That is why it is very important for us to think before we let out what we're are speaking because it refeclts not on us but our parents.

written by: dharshinie vimalanathan

manage conflict

In managing conflict, you can choose from a variety of productive or unproductive strategies. The strategies you choose will be influenced by numerous factors. Among them are:

1. Goals- what are you trying to achieve?
2. Emotional state- what is your feeling right now?
3. Cognitive assessment- what are you belief in?
4. Personality and communication competence- what are your characteristics?
5. Family history- how is your background?

posted by,
Liew Li Hui