cOnFlicT ??

helo everyone... finally i sign in and post my first article..
i was wondering for a few days... what i need to post??
and i found that my brain was suffering in that period..
fortunately my brain come out with something today..
CONFLICT!!

First and foremost, what is conflict all about? Is it good or bad in the daily life? However, the meaning show in the dictionary is conflict occurs when there is a collision or disagreement between two or more parties. There are different kinds of conflicts happened in the real life, no matter it is through verbal or non-verbal communication. Conflict normally happen when one's opinion is opposed to another without any consensus is being achieved.

For instant, Vivian was quarrelled with her mother. Vivian told her mother that she would like to buy a new hand phone because her friends like to make fun on her out dated hand phone. She felt ashamed because of this incident. But her mother was not agreeing with her since the family do not want to spend too much on the unnecessary expenses. Without listen to the further explanation, Vivian was very angry and refused to talk with her mom for a week. In this circumstance, both parties also play an important role in solving a conflict. Indeed, they have to figure out the reason behind the argument but not insist to stay on with each other's opinion.

If both of them are sitting down and discussing with each other, will it be another outcome at the end of the day? Perhaps they may not get into this dilemma. If they are willing to discuss after fight, they should be able to analyze the whole situation more rationally and will understand each other better. Why Vivian's mom does not allow her to get a brand new hand phone? The truth is Vivian's father was having H1N1 and they just received the medical report from the hospital. Due to this matter, they need a large amount of money in order to pay for her father's medical fees in a moment.

In the condition mentioned above, can you actually judge the conflict is good or bad? Conflict had made Vivian being a considered daughter and learns how to show understanding and respect to her family. Sometimes, it really depends on the situation before we can conclude that conflict is beneficial in exploring somebody's mindset to bring positive result or causing both parties to get involved in the argument. When you learn something from conflict or mistake, it will become your key to success yet you can gain lots of good values which you can't find it easily in the text book.


By,
Liew Li Hui