Let's Make A U-turn

In relationships you will always have lots of misunderstanding and arguments. So, may I ask you a simple question? Have you ever been in a position where communication did not go as you wanted and you wished you could take back what you said or do a U-turn and reverse on what you have said, done or thought about? I certainly have.

Here is a typical situation that might have happened for many of us where it might be shrewd to do a ‘reverse’ and do things differently to create a diverse outcome for you, your partner and your relationship…

Try and imagine that your significant other, spouse or someone you love does something unexpected, not something that you would agree on, and when you get angry about it, the other person becomes very defensive trying to defend themselves, lashes out at you or withdraws. You get no where talking to each other, let alone understanding each other.

This example is one of the common problems in communication for young and old couples or any people who live or work together, and I bet that you have experienced something alike and would like to know how to resolve these kinds of problems.

Written by : Nur Afifah Bt Noor Azlan